Why Marriage Can’t Be 50-50 And Has To Be 100-100

If a couple gets a divorce and neither of the parties had a prenuptial agreement then every asset that couples has is added up and then divided in half. I understand that it is often more complicated than this but the reason I am bringing this up is to discuss the idea that we each […]

An Open Letter To Ray Rice

Dear Ray Rice, This isn’t the typical letter, status update, or any other form of gossip that you are facing today. I am not writing this letter to bash on you, but to instead extend grace. When I say “extend grace”, I in no way mean that I condone what you did to your wife, […]

My Wife Is Gone And Now I’m Lonely

I can’t remember a time in my life when I have been this lonely. I’m sure there have been moments but none I can recall. I am a person that thrives around other people. Community fuels my heart and re energizes me. My definition of a great time is being surrounded with my wife and […]

Is Your Love Unreasonable?

Throughout time, humans have elevated reason – our ability to rationalize and make judgement calls regarding good and bad decisions. In Aristotle’s Ethics he describes human beings as rational animals and identifies reason as a uniquely human characteristic. Our ability to justify and rationalize our decision-making is God-given. But dependence upon reason can also get in the […]

One Thing Your Marriage Needs

Do you ever watch those southwest commercials that ends with the saying “wanna get away”? They are probably some of my favorite commercials. One reason being, they are hilarious. Second reason, aside from their brilliant marketing and trying to sell you that they’re the best, Southwest is right: sometimes we just gotta get away. It’s […]