I Didn’t Want Children, Then God Did This!

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When my wife and I were first married I can remember our many conversations about never wanted kids. I would justify our protest, saying things like, We know we are too selfish to have kids.” or We enjoy our freedom too much.” There were many other unspoken reasons why I personally didn’t want children, but it pretty much boiled down to selfishness, anger and fear. Selfishness, because I was selfish. Anger because my wife and I had a broken sex life and I couldn’t imagine having the “burden” of a child while we couldn’t even enjoy sex. Fear because I […]

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Is It A Sin To Be Tempted? Be Encouraged!

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For those of us out there on a journey towards purity and freedom from certain addictions and sins, I wanted to take a short moment to encourage you in your walk. There have been innumerable times, in my fight against pornography and lust, that I found myself being tempted to indulge in my drug of choice. In the times that I would refrain I would still feel the shame and guilt as if I lost and gave in. I never understood this, and it often led me to end up giving into the temptation after all. I figured that if […]

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How Answering Two Questions Could Save Your Marriage

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She was working quietly in her room putting her princess dress on, complete with the shoes and tiara. She knew daddy would be home soon. She was standing there in her innocent beauty, when he walked through the door. As soon as she saw him, she said, “Look at me daddy!” Any man that has a daughter has seen something like this. If our minds and priorities are in the right place, the situation melts our hearts. If not, we will blow it off with a quick “you look great princess.” It continues to happen as she gets older. When […]

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These 4 Steps Will Save Your Marriage

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I was 25 when I got married and it didn’t take long to realize that I was in no way prepared for it. The divorce threat was thrown out every time an argument occurred (which was on a daily basis) and I started to have bitterness toward my wife. I knew marriage wasn’t going to be easy, but I had no idea it was going to be that hard. I did not like my personal life in the least bit and I tried to avoid it as much as possible. Does this story sound familiar to you? Some married couples […]

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3 Unique Ways To Grow Your Faith In 2015

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Do you ever feel dry and lost in your faith? Not that you have lost your faith, you just feel like you need a new spark in your faith. I believe we all go through this at times. There are seasons of our life where we feel lonely and abandoned just like the Israelites felt in the wilderness, yet God was always with them. God allows us to go through season in our life, and every season is intended to draw us nearer to God and his purposes. No matter the season you are in now I suggest you continue […]

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The Secret To Praying With Your Wife Consistently

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Do you pray with your wife? If you do, is it focused and consistent? If you don’t pray with your wife, what’s getting in the way? Keep reading this post, and I guarantee you that within days you’ll be praying with your mate on a consistent basis if you use the three “I’s”. I’ve been married for 14 years, and one of the things I struggled with is praying consistently with my wife, Cetelia. When I say consistently, I mean each day with a specific prayer focus in mind. I’m not sure why this has been so hard, but it […]

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How To Properly Use The 5 Love Languages

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“Love Language” – each of us have at least one. If you have never heard of the 5 Love Languages, I highly recommend that you and your spouse go take the quiz at 5lovelanguages.com I promise it will strengthen your marriage IF you actually use the results for the benefit of your marriage. As years go by, some spouses stop caring about one another’s love language and they just become content in the marriage. Or some marriages think that they are fulfilling their spouses love language only to find out they are failing at it. I have listed the 5 […]

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Facebook Is Sucking All My Brains

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Scrolling… scrolling… scrolling… Stop. “wow, I didn’t know they were together…” Scrolling… Scrolling… This is my life now. I scroll through photos, statuses, videos, rants, mindless thoughts, funny memes, political mumbo-jumbo and all the other things that people deem important for the world to know. I feel like I can’t breath. I use facebook on a daily basis for Husband Revolution and Unveiled Wife, but I wish I didn’t need to. When I’m on Facebook, I can almost feel the life being stolen from me, drowning in a sea of people’s thoughts. I wonder how many hours I have thrown […]

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3 Ways To Become A Wise Husband

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I know lot’s of things. I know that donuts are not good for me at all, but I eat them regardless. I know that drinking coffee on an empty stomach can produce ulcers or worse, yet I still drink it. I know that the Bible commands me to love my wife like Christ, giving myself up for her daily and yet I am often selfish and far from Christ-like toward her. See, I know lot’s of things, but I am not wise. Wisdom is the action I take based on the knowledge I have. No, I am not wise; I […]

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She’s Not An Object. She’s A Person!

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The Devil hates women. He always has. Because of this animosity, It has become his mission in this world to destroy every good and beautiful thing about women God has created. He does this in many ways, and one of those ways is by stealing the very humanity God breathed into them. Objectifying women is an epidemic in our world perpetuated by the Devil himself. If you don’t believe me just turn on the TV to pretty much any channel, and you will see women on display for anyone who wants to consume their flesh with their eyes. As Christian men, we […]

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