By: Michael Rochin

I Thought She Was Perfect… Then I Learned About Her Past!

When I first met my wife, I was in awe. She was so beautiful and if you asked me if I remember what she was wearing the first time I met her, I could easily tell you (striped white/grey v neck, blue jeans and boots). There was nothing that could ever make me think she wasn’t perfect… then I learned about her past. Although it isn’t bad at all, she was imperfect and made some mistakes. I am sure I am not the only one who has been in this situation. Here are the steps on what judging your girlfriends’, fiancées’/wife’s past […]

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By: Duff Tucker

This Movie Has The Answer To The Biggest Struggle Men Face

I believe that one of the biggest struggles facing men today is not one of sin. We are all born in sin, and as human beings living in a fallen world, we will struggle throughout our lives with different sins. Some we will gain complete victory over, (through Christ of course), while others will remain a major battle in our lives requiring prayer, meditation, effort, discipline, repentance and God’s grace and forgiveness. James 1, 2&3 tells us to “count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience”. Over time I’ve […]

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By: Matthew L. Jacobson

100 Ways To Love Your Wife

Being spontaneous is great . . . Hey Babe, let’s go grab a bite to eat at . . . . .  Let’s jump in the car and visit . . . . .  How about we . . ? But the planned, thoughtful evening out where all the details are handled, so all she has to do is get ready, says so much more. And, that’s a message her radar is always scanning for: How important to him am I . . really? She knows, innately, she has the right to be cherished by you. If you’re like me, […]

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Remember, you and your wife are one flesh. That means when you make decisions that hurt you, you are also hurting your her. - Aaron Smith

Remember, you and your wife are one flesh. That means when you make decisions that hurt you, you are also hurting your her. – Aaron Smith

By: Chris Speas

Putting This One Principle Into Action Will Revolutionize Your Marriage!

It’s been a while since God revealed some truth to me in regards to conquering obstacles, stumbling blocks and sin. I understand things better in analogies, and this one kind of came to me out of nowhere. Years ago I was taking lessons for riding a motorcycle. I had already been riding with my instruction permit for about a month, and I wanted to learn good and safe habits so as not to fall into some bad ones. Among all of the principles I was taught, one stuck out to me most. The idea is that when entering into a […]

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If you neglect your first love (God), Then you will inevitably neglect you second love (your wife).

If you neglect your first love (God), Then you will inevitably neglect you second love (your wife).

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By: Aaron Smith

Are You Looking For An Upgrade? House, Car, Cellphone… Wife?

Guest Article Is it me, or are we flooded every day with the idea that, if you don’t like what you have, replace it with something that suits you better? It’s all about upgrading these days. Is your current cell company not meeting your expectations? Get a new provider. Did your car break down? Go to the dealer and trade it in. Your wife isn’t the person you thought she was? Divorce her and find another wife! The point is not that getting a new cell phone or car is bad, but that this mentality has conditioned us to believe […]

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By: Matthew L. Jacobson

She’s Always a Woman

Age 31 arrived and with it, the cold fingers of early winter tightened their slow, numbing grip on the last week in October. Happy Birthday, but not really. Winter is colder when you’re alone and don’t want to be. “It is not good for a man to be alone.” Yeah, God, I know. So, where is she, because I’ve searched for her in every room, at every church service, through every crowd, down every busy street? I’m not a huge Bruce Springsteen fan but with 32 staring me in the face, I felt the vibe of his song, Dancing in […]

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By: Tom Celaya

The Butterflies, The Emotions, The Sleepless Nights. Do You Remember?

There are so many stages of a relationship: courting dating engagement marriage Aren’t those first 3 incredible! The butterflies, the emotions, the uncertainty, sleepless nights, countdowns until you see her, etc. Number 4 is the day you plan for, work for & spend a ton of money on to show off your girl & to make her your wife. It is one of the greatest days of your life and then we, as men, forget. Do you remember how hard you fought for her, how you spent all kinds of money on her and how you even lost friends over […]

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By: Matthew L. Jacobson

102 Words of Affirmation Every Wife Wants to Hear

A while back I was speaking and asked for a show of hands, “How many of the wives have had too much affirmation over the past month?” Laughter broke out across the room. No, haven’t had too much of that. If Lisa is any indication, women often have the feeling that life is coming at them with the speed of a fighter jet and the chaos of a riot. Add to this the voices everywhere around them saying in subtle and not so subtle ways that the job they’re doing isn’t quite up to the mark. Wives often have the […]

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